About you, please correct me if I am wrong?

When you met him he had just ended a relationship with his first wife and was involved with another woman while dating you You two met because he delivered a package to your office. You exchange numbers and arrange to meet each other for your first date, but he stands you up. But for whatever reason he does hook up with you and things happen and he never left your side from that point. Until you hooked up with his first ex wife's husband who by the is now your current husband. Wow what a story hoes gone mad. The way I understand the story you so desperately wished to consume the identity of his first wife that you had both of her man and have babies by both of them as so does she. What I think is so ironic is that you both not only share the fathers but you also have the same initials. Wow this is some good stuff I can really see you in a starring role. Heather Hunter's story isn't as good as yours but what do I know? I know that you lack confidence in your self that you have gone so far as to assume the identity of his first wife. I know researching me will bring you great joy because measuring up to me will be a commitment you will never complete in this life time but it is definitely worth the effort. Good luck in your endeavor.

What I learned today!

Today I learned I have a female stalker his ex wife I'm trying to refrain from using your name in this blog but if you make me I will call you out. I am only blogging because I need you to realize before you make the biggest mistake of your life of who your are messing with. My name is Melva Hunter and yes I am a mother, a woman and then a wife. From what I understand your married to the man of his ex wife wow, what type of chick does that? I'm not sure if this is worth a segment on Jerry Springer or if I should contact the History channel to see if your story is worth being aired after all what you did, have done will go down in history as what a hoe shouldn't do prostitutes don't pick up and marry a boy that lives off his mama but your story is worth telling. In case you didn't know I am a writer and willing to get your side if the story but if not I will just recant his side. I am not sure what I have done to make you want stalk me like this but I ask you via this blog to stop immediately. From a woman to a whore I ask that you please leave me alone or you will regret the day you researched me. Enjoy your life with your husband and please leave me alone. Last time.

my life and love for you.

My life is an investment, every single thing I do is for a purpose. I want to thank you babe for wanting to spend the rest of your life with me. I love you and cant wait to marry you..

2010-2011

In the early part of 2010, I cried enough because of the sadness, pain and more drama than needed, but once I separated myself from the negativity, my frown quickly turned upside right. I met someone who knew the meaning of love and respect, now known as my Snuggie. I thank God often for blessing me with love and the happiness that I have so richly desired. I know that the Lord is with me and now the devil realizes that I’m still here. The old is gone and the better is here and I am stronger, confident and more passionate. I have learned that God will let it do what it do, and through perseverance I will have that close relationship with him.

My first 48 hours into 2011, I realized I am moving into something. I plan to see God more this year than ever before, because I need him to align me with his blessings, and the ones he has prepared especially for me. This year I will: pace myself, look for new opportunities to succeed, live on purpose, and strengthen my relationship with Christ and man, through commitment, communication and sacrifice.

This year I will break out in praise because my joy will in the morning…God is with me and I know this year will be a better year, I moving into a better place strategically, putting myself on target for my own destination, by aligning my thinking with my purpose. I will be specific in my blessing according to the word, be unto my favor on every side, health and wholeness. I can no longer live in excuse, God I command order out of this disorder, I want to move on purpose.

Hey Lord...

I thank you for allowing me to have had these last couple of days to examine me and my life. I know that I have made many mistakes over the years but none have compared to the mistakes I made by not following your words. I have come to the quick realization that home is where my heart is and I think at this point in the game I can't tell where home is because my heart has not found peace and the tranquil I desire. I know every part of me hates where I reside and that has everything to do with the circumstances of my inability to believe that you led me to that place for a reason. I want what every person desires to be happy and free from the burdens that I carry from my past. Not every person is out to hurt me and because I can't recognize trust I can't find that salvation I seek. I ask you God on a daily basis to continue bless me and help me find the strength that I need but is that all I need to do? I pray, give him praise and I ask for your guidance hourly. I am not that strong individual that I pretend to be I'm only human, but you know that. I am a woman first and a mother second. I admit I can't do this anymore Lord that's why I'm writing to you at this hour, I just hope that you can decipher through all of this and give me what I so desire, that inner strength and happiness. Thank you Lord for blessing me, without you I know none of this possible.

Selfish.....

I never in a million years thought I would state that you are selfish. You are a stubborn, selfish, spiteful, and a very negative individual. You have stated you live your life according to God but yet you are so judgmental and I never could understand people like you, thus my reason for not wanting to concern myself any further. God is my juror not you. What I choose to do with my time should not be a factor that you deem a fault.

I honestly believe that you are living under false pretense and yes I failed to recognize your inabilities but believe it or not despite my ways, God is very active in my life. He has presented me with so many signs and I have for the most ignored his words but I won’t and will no longer continue down that path. I need to Love, Live and enjoy my LIFE according to God. I will no longer allow anger and ignorance to hold me hostage. I FOUND MYSELF, and the sooner you look in the mirror and see past your swag than you will be able to appreciate life and what God has in store for you.

Not all women are out to do you wrong, but you will never see that so long as you only see swag. Have a great life and enjoy her……

Distance....

There may be distance between us, 2881 miles to be exact, but I need you to know and understand that my love for has not and will never change. I gave you life, you gave me strength, hope and something to live for. In all the things that I have done in my life my most precious outcome has been your growth and development. I am proud to call you my daughter, my son and my grandson.

I know I have had to endure more than my share of sadness but my sadness never was because of your existence. I love your every being, stay blessed, be focused and know that I may be 2881 miles away but I am never to far to love you...I miss you..

Love to you!