Strength and Determination

Strength and Determination
They're the reason I do what I do!!

Welcome to Melva's Corner

Good Day All:

After many months of debating back and forth I decided I would invite you into my world. I LOVE interacting with people and now that I have moved away from my loved ones to reside in Las Vegas, Nevada, I needed an outlet to keep me focused and on track.

Please enjoy the topics and most importantly let me know what you think!!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

The decision to hire a black man????

March 2010, the Nevada school district began their search for a new Superintendent; yesterday a decision was made to hire Dwight Jones, former Commissioner of Education, of Colorado. Today’s news topic is “was the decision rushed” I have been following this search and believe that of the three candidates selected (one dropped out to accept a position in Florida) he was qualified and what this state needs, considering that Nevada ranks one of lowest in the country. My question now is: Do the people of Nevada beleive the decision was rushed because he his black?

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Lies......

You came into my life when I needed a distraction more than anything. Only problem you never stopped lying, Why? Who am I that you felt it necessary to lie too, why am I special? You never stopped having feelings for your ex but yet you wanted me to believe differently. I said things to you that I had not mentioned to any person before and you took that information to be my weakness.

Sure I had fun with you for all of seven days and then things went to the far left because you were not a strong man in your abilities to keep things real. I may not be the best woman out there but the thing I am positive about is that I am a good woman, one that you will never ever recognize or know because of your inability to see the truth.

One love

Monday, September 13, 2010

Stupidity

Is stupidity your best quality, a characteristic that makes you believe you are a better person? Is it gene that was passed on to you from your parents? I used to think that you were operating or arrogance but you, are STUPID! I can not abide stupid! If you were merely IGNORANT, you could be taught!!

You think with the past you have acquired you would have learned and profited from that experience. I can not believe that a person that claims to be better man than most rejects evidence in favor of beliefs. You are a repeat offender who denies the wisdom of those wiser than self. Your stupidity allows you to be unable to change his or her view point based on logic, reason, evidence, and fact. You are an idiot if you allowed your stupid baby momma to make you go out into the world and write bad checks in order to see your son.

Your Stupidity is that quality that makes me wonder if you are really incapable or grossly inept at change/growth. Your inability to understand or agree with the point of view of others causes a great concern for me. Your actions are starting to confirm for me that your arrogance that has led to your stupidity may not be entirely your fault, but I still claim you to be stupid. But perhaps a better qualifier would be that your ignorance about this situation, yet your attempt to discuss said situation as if you were not ignorant, is stupid.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Floyd Mayweather, Jr.

Why??????? You are idolized by most so why would you go do something as stupid as allegedly beat your ex-girlfriend and steal her cell phone, for real? Sure the media in Las Vegas is probably over dramatizing the events that took place between you and Ms. Josie, but the fact remains that now your mug shot will consume my television all weekend, WHY? You are facing jail time over an EX, seriously??? Freaking Paris Hilton’s arrest was downplayed and will receive less airtime. I understand different situations but you’re a black man, a respected man and now this….Shaking my head…

Mr. Floyd whoever is in your camp that has allowed you to be depicted in this manner by the media needs to be let off of your “money train”. I say this because someone thought it was a good move to record and post your rant about Manny Pacquiao, as well as go to your ex’s house. You might have more money than the State of Nevada’s deficit but to run the risk of losing some of your endorsements, wow….Because of the recent events you should think about reorganizing and do it immediately because someone in your camp does not have your best interest. I personally would have talked you down off of both of those ledges because another individual is not worth the headache that you have drummed up…Sure I may not have all the facts but I know about domestic “unnecessary” situations and this is probably one that could have been easily avoided…..

Monday, September 6, 2010

My prayers...

I contacted you to send my prayers to you and your family. Losing a loved one is not something anyone wishes on the worst enemy. Instead of you thanking me for having you in my thoughts you respond: "I appreciate the concern, but I'm not sure how to take it because you have no concern and had no concern for me or my family when you were putting up your post of you and another man on your FB page, nor were you concerned for me when you had your legs behind your head while you allowed another man to insert his dick in and out of your pussy repeatedly while still being legally married to me, but I'm sorry, your excuse for that is we are seperated. even though I am going through what seems to be an heart breaking moment for me and my family. Like a damn fool I still Love You and want to come home to you even after you so proudly threw up in my face that you are fucking another man. I have not nor have had the desire to fuck another woman other than you my wife. Once again about the Adult Friend Finder thing, had you simply fucked your husband instead of denying your husband sex from his wife, and directing him to seek sex from another instead of the woman who took those with me, then none of that Adult Friend Finder would have come in to play. Yet you still never answered the question of, if I you are not suppose to fuck your husband, then who's place is it to fuck your husband other than you? My Dad is a symbol of how short life really is and why we should not be apart the way we are, but I guess until it hits home for you, then you will never understand that the things that you're allowing to keep us seperated is not worth continuing. Never-the-less I appreciate the thoughts of your should be Father-inlaw," how does a woman take a man back after a words such as these? A simple thank you in someones time of need goes a long way. I've always known how you felt about me but this just soldifies what I have been stating.....