Strength and Determination

Strength and Determination
They're the reason I do what I do!!

Welcome to Melva's Corner

Good Day All:

After many months of debating back and forth I decided I would invite you into my world. I LOVE interacting with people and now that I have moved away from my loved ones to reside in Las Vegas, Nevada, I needed an outlet to keep me focused and on track.

Please enjoy the topics and most importantly let me know what you think!!

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Whatelse is left....

We have gone our seperate ways and all we had was the internet. What you did was get yourself blocked from my world. Eventually you will find yourself unable to send me emails. I tried to tell you numerous times that I never ment to hurt you all I wanted to do was put as much space between us, so that you are granted what you had been asking me and others for, for months. You wnated me gone so I left.

You tried to post comments about me on your Facebook account and tried desperately to make me believe that you were only hurting and that those words were not your true feelings.. But the sad part is you had called me those words many times in the past so it was really hard to make one understand that you felt any different.

I wanted to embrace you this week and I almost brought you a meal but the true kept sending me emails and comments that I had as much hatred in the deliverance that I knew I would be dealing with that same mean-spirited person as I had been dealing with while living with you.

I am sorry and I wish you nothing but the best. I know you are attempting to find someone if you have not and I hope all works out for you. You don't deserve this and happiness will soon be upon yu that I will only be a matter of fact.

Take care and stay focused....

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

The internet....

Why is that Match.com can find you a husband but on the websites designed for persons of color such as Blackplanet the majority of the men are dogs, who want to see tits and ass. Why is it a breeding ground for sexual predators/offenders and whores. Why not call it what it is? I am so sick of this internet crap, what happened to encountering people with true intentions

Sunday, July 18, 2010

a cheating man is a lying man.....

We met and fell in love everyone said we shouldn't get married but we did. What a relationship. He wanted control and power and she wanted love and affection. He was n't the man to give her the love and affection she so desired and she wasn't the woman to allow him the power and control that he needed to stroke his ego. His pride and arrogance is what kept him from loving her, ut it was her personalities that kept her grounded. He tried unsuccessfully to break her spirit and isolate her from the world.

Three years and alot of turmoil later she gained the strength she need to leave his but before leaving him, he had the audacity to have another bitch call her home. Yes the two of them discussed the love they had for each other and it cut her deeply, if ther was any chance of taking another stabbed at their marriage it was completely dissolved after that telephone call. She never ment to cause him any pain or heartache and she damn sure didn't expect him to be the janitor that he claims he by cleaning up the mess that she left behind, but truth be told he made his bed and now he has to lie in it. It is a kingsize bed so he has a lot he needs to work through....

Monday, July 5, 2010

I thought we were half sisters.....

why is that family is the first one to talk shit about you and then call you a hater? I would be the one who is in the wrong if I put the bitches business out there in the same manner that she has done with me. We are supposed to be sisters but for some reason you keep thinking I am an enemy and that I have time to interject my cares into your daily life by calling you. I am sorry what would be the purpose of my call we have nothing in common and the fact that you keep running your mouth about shit you have know clue about is enough for me to leave your ass alone.

I can't wait for this dude to hurt you in the same manner that your previous boyfriend did, he is no different accept his name and emplyment status that is all. He is a womanizer and you are the last person to see this fool for what he is because you need a man to validate you. You are a weak individual and he sees that and is taking advantage of you. If you think I am bullshitting check his computer cookies and view the sites he has been on. Sure babe you might be with him in New Orleans but when he gets back to Boston it will be you, him and HERS..... Drink to that.....You let him start this bullshit now I am going to finish it......